Comedy as Truth-Telling: Why I Write Dark Comedies
There's a reason the best comedies make you laugh and then make you think. Dark comedy isn't about shock value — it's about using humor as a Trojan horse to deliver uncomfortable truths.
I've always been drawn to stories that live in the uncomfortable space between laughter and pain. The kind of stories where you're laughing one moment and then suddenly confronted with something that makes you sit back and ask: wait, why did I laugh at that?
That tension — that discomfort — is where I believe the most honest storytelling happens.
Humor allows us to examine the quiet, exhausting survival mechanisms we adopt just to navigate the world. Recently, I came to a painful realization: I was still performing subtle, self-effacing gestures in my day-to-day life that chipped away at my dignity. I had to confront the reality that around White individuals, I would instinctively adjust my posture, soften my presence, and smooth over my energy — all to keep the peace and avoid causing discomfort.
While I'm out on my regular routine, I feel forced to let them know, "I'm one of the good ones." WTF?
When you've been tailed through store aisles while minding your business, or watched strangers pull back on sidewalks and shrink into the corners of elevators, it builds up. The psychological weight accumulates, and without realizing it, you train yourself to constantly shrink and reconfigure your identity just to prove you mean no harm.
No more performing for the comfort of others. If my identity triggers something inside you, the issue lies within you. I will no longer carry that weight. So, I write.